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Sometimes asking for help is the bravest move you can make.  You don't have to go it alone.

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Oh boy, not only did I think I could do it alone, but I tried and I tried and I tried. "It" being pretty much EVERYTHING in my life. 

Honestly, I didn't ask for help until about a year ago when it was practically forced on me through a mini-intervention at Cafe Nero, a local coffee shop here. 

You two know who you are and my heart is forever grateful. xo

This intervention came after a 2nd round of Shingles for me (yeah... I know) as a desperate plea for me to slow down, get my bearings, and say yes to all of the people who were offering to help me.  

And I did... after some tears, a lot of deep breaths, and swallowing my pride, of course.  

Up to this point, I was a self-proclaimed Super Woman who not only could do everything but should do everything by herself, with a smile.  That makes me laugh now...

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Asking for help became a...

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"Sometimes asking for help is the bravest move you can make.  You don't have to go it alone."

~~~~~

Oh boy, not only did I think I could do it alone, but I tried and I tried and I tried. "It" being pretty much EVERYTHING in my life. 

Honestly, I didn't ask for help until about a year ago when it was practically forced on me through a mini-intervention at Cafe Nero, a local coffee shop here. 

You two know who you are and my heart is forever grateful. xo

This intervention came after a 2nd round of Shingles for me (yeah... I know) as a desperate plea for me to slow down, get my bearings, and say yes to all of the people who were offering to help me.  

And I did... after some tears, a lot of deep breaths, and swallowing my pride, of course.  

Up to this point, I was a self-proclaimed Super Woman who not only could do everything but should do everything by herself, with a smile.  That makes me laugh now...

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Asking for help...

“Here I am… again.”

This was my (defeating) thought this past Sunday as I moved into the FIFTH place I’ve lived since arriving in MA less than 3 years ago.

The familiar lug of heavy boxes, endless bags, HUGE plastic bins, and the bits and bobbles we seem to take with us everywhere we go, even though we don’t really need them.  

There I was...again...back and forth between huffing & puffing from going up and down the stairs, the sighs of overwhelm, silently cursing as I bump an elbow or a knee on a corner; and some tears.  These tears were partly out of frustration, partly from being alone, and mostly from the pain of thinking, “Here I am, again”.

Let’s take a quick step back…   

For those of you that don’t know, I moved to MA from TX in March of 2016 to create a life that I imagined to be PERFECT!  After living in TX for 36 years at this point, this was an adventure of a lifetime…...

Oh happy day, Derith!

It's the Tuesday before Christmas and the busy buzz is in the air!

Last minute things to do here and there... lots of "oops, I forgot..." and "I still need to..." 

Well, in case some of your to do items involve picking up a few more gifts, then I have you covered!  

Here are my top 8 healthy (and FIERCE) gift ideas for the special people in your life who have staying healthy at the top of their list. 

1. Pampered Chef Infusion Water Bottle

Making your water taste delicious has never been easier! The Infusion Water Bottle lets you drink your way, whether you sip or chug. The strainer lets you infuse the flavors of your favorite fruits and veggies—it’s a no-fuss, on-the-go way to elevate ordinary water.

2.  Danielle Walker's Cookbook, "Eat What You Love"

The BEST of gluten-free, dairy-free, and paleo recipes right at your fingertips from the author that brought us "Against All Grain." ...

Even with the best laid plans, there are days where life just doesn’t allow you to get to the gym.  And, truth be told, there are days when we simply don’t feel like going! Yes, even me...

Most of you know that I LOVE the gym more than pretty much any other place on earth and there are still those days when I don’t want to go to the gym.

Whether you have a fully stocked gym at home with a ton of space or no equipment at all without any space, you will find something here to help you stay fit no matter what!  

I have learned, through a lot of trial and error, that having a “home gym” with a few pieces of small equipment at the ready gives me the opportunity to get in a quick workout any time and eliminates the excuse that you have to go to the gym to get in a good workout!

Whether you have a fully stocked gym at home with a ton of space or no equipment at all without any space, you will find something here to help you stay fit no matter...

“She’s a dreamer, a doer, a thinker.  She sees possibility everywhere.” - Unknown

I love this quote and to me it describes the FIERCE woman...

* we DREAM big for our goals

* we DO take action on what’s necessary to move forward

* we THINK positively to create empowered choices

* we SEE possibility everywhere because we choose to BELIEVE

That last line… “we choose to believe”, can be a tricky one.

At this moment, there are countless beliefs you have about yourself, your family, the world, & life in general, and just thinking about them can trigger many thoughts and memories and feelings…good, bad, and indifferent.  

Unfortunately, when it comes to beliefs about ourselves, negative thoughts and limiting beliefs that hold us back from feeling good in our skin, trying new things, going for it despite the fear - are an easy go-to. They may feel true on core level because of a real-life experience...

I don't know about you, but my usual go-to at the end of pretty much anything is, "what's next"? 

Whether it is the end of an hour, the end of the day, or in today's case, the end of the month.

"Ok, so that's done. Now what do I have to do?" That sounds positive and feels exciting doesn't it?  Yeah, I didn't think so.  

But alas, it is human nature for us to move so quickly from one to-do item to the next, that we barely acknowledge anything we have accomplished and instead just focus on all of the things we still have to do.  Sound familiar?   

(Hmm, I wonder why we feel tired a lot of the time...)